upthehillart:

chat how do i get myself to care about anything else but lesbians😭 i just cant anymore🤚🤸‍♂️

and that’s ironic because here’s me in 2016 when i created this blog:


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plssss😭😭 i just celebrated 5 years with my gf (she/they)😭😭🫶

this is thanks to fandom, to tumblr friends and anons continuously clocking me for my internalized homophobia and misogyny and encouraging me to reflect (plus education and exposure to representation!! so important!!). that helped me realize so much about myself and ⛓️‍💥break the chains⛓️‍💥 and i live so much more authentically now because of that😭🥹🥹 the gay agenda works yall🥹💗 lol

and now for the past few years my brain’s been made up of nothing but girls🧎‍♀️ so like… tldr…. welcome to my multifandom sapphic era 😜✌️

mrv3000:

kkglinka:

This is a Moving Forward PSA for everyone using AO3. I am witnessing the results of a culture clash and communication failure. Not a lack of communication, but a misunderstanding caused by changes in fandom culture.

Before fic tagging was common, fics weren’t tagged. You had a pairing, if applicable, an author’s note about genre or general content, and if they were feeling charitable, a vague content warning. There are even a few genres of fic where even vaguely tagging literally spoils the plot and impact (such as horror, psyche thriller, in which the likely content is implicit to the genre). As a result, there is a basic category tag that permits this, as a courtesy to “old-fashioned” writers.

“No Archive Warnings Apply” means the fic is PG13 at worst, probably fluff, totally safe.

“Choose Not to Use Archive Warnings” is the polar opposite. It’s a glaring Enter at Your Own Risk billboard. It means: a shitload of warnings apply but I ain’t telling because this story requires shock value. It’s very important to read the author’s notes for those fics because they might be using that older format from above.

But without the context of fandom culture that generated AO3, it’s understandably easy to conflate the two categories, given their similar wording.

“No Archive Warnings Apply” means there’s no

  • graphic depictions of violence
  • major character death
  • underage
  • rape/non-con

“Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings” =  HERE BE DRAGONS. (implies that one or more of the above exists, but the author doesn’t want to give anything away by tagging)

what-even-is-thiss:

“Well you wouldn’t be discriminated against if you just hid everything about who you are from everyone”

Hey. Hey. Listen. Come close. Closer. Yeah. Listen.

*blows an air horn in your ear*

lupusbaby:

Being chronically ill is like

“It’s fine”

“It’s fine”

“It’s fine”

*complete mental breakdown because you can’t do this anymore*

“It’s fine”

winged-mammal:

quasi-normalcy:

quasi-normalcy:

The fact that you can’t raise taxes on billionaires even slightly without them pouring money into fascist political movements is, of itself, evidence that billionaires as a class shouldn’t be allowed to exist in the first place.

I’d just like to point out that every single thing that has happened in the 6 years since I created this post has only reinscribed its absolute moral correctness in my mind.

screenshot of a blue sky post from John Rogers (of Leverage fame) which reads: "Yet again - a billion dollars is the socioeconomic equivalent of a loose nuke. We should work to prevent the acquisition of the former with the same urgency we do to prevent the acquisition of the latter."

dragon-in-a-fez:

the thing that really cheeses my cake about flies getting in my house is they clearly don’t want to be there anyway. like at least the ants trying to steal cereal from my pantry had a goal and a plan. you are just here because you’re too stupid to use a window twice

parkchanwoohoo:

parkchanwoohoo:

Every macho dipshit talks abt how many people they’d kill to protect their family as though I’m supposed to be impressed. I can hear the glee in your voice dude you’re ACHING for a chance to do this, you’re giving up nothing in this situation. Tell me how many loads you’d take to protect your family

“I don’t care what’s going on you mess with my wife and kids I’m putting a bullet in you” Yeah yeah yeah when was the last time you did the dishes without being asked. Can you picture your wife happily working at a job that makes more than yours without punching a hole in the drywall. Make her lunch

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